Monday, May 4, 2009

Love and Ego

"Sometimes love is for a moment, sometimes love is for a lifetime.
Sometimes a moment is a lifetime."

Once upon a time there was an island, where all the feelings lived. One day
there was a storm in the sea and the island was about to get drowned.

Every 'feeling' was scared but Love made a boat to escape.

Every 'feeling' boarded the boat. Only 1 feeling was left.

Love got down to see who it was.. It was EGO!

Love tried and tried but ego wasn't moving also the water was rising.

Every one asked Love to leave him and come in the boat, but Love was made to
love.

At last all the 'feelings' escape and Love dies with Ego on the island..

Love Dies because of EGO !


So, Kill Ego And Save Love.

Friday, April 24, 2009

Romantic Country Names

Sunday, April 12, 2009

Romantic Notes

Every once in a while, we all need to know that we are loved, that there is someone in this whole wide world who loves us for who and what we are. It certainly feels good to know that we are loved. Such an awareness makes us feel better about ourselves, improves our self-confidence and our well-being. It definitely feels good to know that we are loved.

It must also feel good to express our love in little ways. If the knowledge that you are loved uplifts you, then surely the knowledge that you love that special someone in your life must be great for that person too. So, we must make it a point to let that someone in our lives know that we love him or her. It does not have to be a grand gesture of eternal love all the time. Sometimes, little love notes are enough.

How do you make love notes?
It really is not hard to make one. While there are many different ways of presenting a love note, with your own personal creativity as the only limit, there is only one requirement to make a great love note. Great love notes only need to be sincere. If you really love the person to whom you will give the love note, it will show through your writing no matter how short or simple it is.

That being said, here are a few suggestions that you could use to make a nice love note that will put a smile on your special someone’s face and bring warmth to his or her heart.

1. Keep it simple. When you write your love note, keep it short and simple. Notes are just notes – they are meant to be read in a single glance to bring the message across. Sometimes, simply scribbling the words “I love you” on a sheet of post-it stationery and sticking it inside her purse or his briefcase in such a way that it would be the first thing to be noticed when the purse or the briefcase is opened is enough.

2. Hint at a joyful, shared memory. The two of you must have spent some good times together, either alone or with friends. Making him or her remember some of those good times together will refresh the feelings of warmth, happiness and affection shared during those times. Memories and nostalgia can be powerful things.

For example, let us say that you had your wedding anniversary and you celebrated by going on a holiday to Paris. Putting a small note where he or she can easily find it, written with the words “Je t’aime” and “Remember Paris,” will certainly stir up a lot of lovely memories of your holiday.

3. Make your note a sensory experience. Sensory cues are always great in reinforcing and recalling memories. The mind always creates memories out of sensory cues. To bring out nice memories of your time together, make your little love note a sensory experience. Spray it with a little of your perfume. If you are a woman, dab on the lipstick that you know he likes and leave a mark of your lips on the note. In the “Remember Paris” example mentioned above, you can use a picture of the two of you in Paris and write the note on the back of the picture.

Give your little love notes to the person that you love whenever you can. You do not have to wait for a special occasion to give it. Every single day in our lives is always special when we are in love.

Kiss Meanings

Kiss on the hand - I adore you.

Kiss on the cheek - I just want to be friends.

Kiss on the chin - You are cute!

Kiss on the neck - I want you.

Kiss on the lips - I love you.

Kiss on the ears - Let's have some fun.

Kiss anywhere else - You're the best.

Romanic Code Signals

Love codes are romantic, fun and private Here are some possibilities:

  • 1-4-3 means "I Love You"
  • Three soft taps on the shoulder mean "I Love You"
  • SWAK = Sealed With A Kiss
  • X's stand for kisses; O's stand for hugs (often used to sign letters)
  • Learn the sign language gesture for "I Love you"
  • Three soft taps on the thigh mean "Let's make love"
  • Red roses symbolize love and passion
  • Pink roses symbolize friendship
  • Yellow roses symbolize respect
  • White roses symbolize purity

If you are creative, by all means make up your own love codes!

Variety of Kisses

Below you will find a variety of kiss types. If you find some that catch your fancy, feel free to try them

Butterfly Kiss - With your faces less than a breath away, open and close your eyelids against your partners. If done correctly, the fluttering sensation will match the one in your heart.

Cheek Kiss - A friendly, "I really like you" kiss. Often the preferred kissing method of a first date. With your hands on your partner's shoulders, gently brush your lips across her cheek.

Earlobe Kiss - Gently sip and suck the earlobe. Avoid louder sucking noises as ears are sensitized noise detectors.

Eskimo Kiss - With your faces less than a breath apart, gently rub your noses together.

Freeze Kiss (or Melt Kiss) - Experiment with this fun kiss. Put a small piece of ice in your mouth, then open mouth and kiss your partner, passing them the ice with your tongue. It's an erotic and sensual french kiss with a twist of cold.

Foot Kiss - An erotic and romantic gesture. It may tickle, but relax and enjoy it! To give a toe kiss by gently suck the toes and then lightly kissing the foot. It helps to gently massage the base of the foot while performing the kiss.

Forehead Kiss - The "motherly" kiss or "just friends" kiss. The forehead kiss can be a comforting kiss to anyone. Simply brush your lips lightly across the crown of their head.

French Kiss - The kiss involving the tongue. Some call this the "Soul Kiss" because the life and soul are thought to pass through the mouth's breath in the exchange across tongues. Surprisingly, the French call this "The English Kiss".

Fruity Kiss - Take a small piece of fruit and place between your lips (juicy fruits such as grapes, strawberries, small pieces of pineapple or mango are ideal). Kiss your partner and nibble one half of the piece of fruit while they nibble the other until it breaks in half, allowing the juice to run into your mouths.

Hand Kiss - Gently raise her hand to your lips. Lightly brush your lips across the top of her hand. Historically this kiss was performed with a bow, which showed deference to a lady.

Hickey Kiss - The object is not to draw blood, but to gently leave a mark that will prove your interlude was not a dream. This is often included in erotic foreplay.

Mistletoe Kiss - Surprise your lover by capturing them with a gentle holiday kiss under the mistletoe. This is also a good method for shyer individuals to steal a kiss from a potential lover.

Letter Kiss - Send your lover a kiss in a love letter by writing the letter x several times in a row at the bottom of a letter such as XXXXX.

Neck Nibble Kiss - Gently nibble up and down your partners neck. End with a gentle kiss on the lips.

Nip Kiss - This kiss can create a very erotic sensation. While kissing your partner, ever so gently nibble on their lips. You must be very careful not to bite to hard or hurt your partner. When done correctly, this kiss ignites wonderful sensations.

Shoulder Kiss - Simply come from behind, embrace her, and kiss the top of her shoulder. This is a sensual, loving kiss.

Sip Kiss - Take a small sip of your favorite drink. Leaving a little bit of it on your lips, kiss your partner. It is a unique way to create a sensual feeling and your partner will enjoy it.

Talking Kiss - Whisper sweet nothings into your partner's mouth. If caught in the act, simply say as Chico Marx, "I wasn't kissing her. I was whispering into her mouth."

Tiger Kiss - Quietly sneak up behind your partner making sure they do not know what you are going to do. Out of the blue, grab them and gently bite their neck. Make sure to get a few good growls in too. This will surely surprise them.

Trickle Kiss - Take a sip of a favourite drink and trickle it slowly into partner's mouth while kissing.

Tongue Sucking - A variation of the French kiss. During an open-mouth kiss gently suck on your partner's tongue (not too hard because it may hurt). Very sexy :-)

Quickie Kiss - When you're in a rush. Often the nose gets it rather than the lips.

Vacuum Kiss - While kissing open-mouthed, slightly suck in as if you were sucking the air from your partners mouth. This is a playful kiss.

Virtual Kiss - For Internet lovers. Send an e-card or a kiss via email with this symbol: :-* .

Romantic Ideas

  • Make a little loving gesture every day for one full year.
  • Cuddle on the sofa and watch a movie.
  • Take a bubble bath together.
  • Walk on the beach in the moonlight.
  • Put a note in a romance novel saying, "The story is great but our own love story is the best".
  • Put a single red rose on the seat of your lover's car before they go to work.
  • Send your lover a virtual postcard at least once a week.
  • Get every book ever written by your loved one's favorite author.
  • Get every movie starring your lovers favorite actor.
  • Keep twenty pounds of your lovers favorite candy on hand.
  • Take her to see the movie Titanic fifteen times.
  • Make love to him/her every night until he/she asks you to stop.
  • Give him/her twelve dozen roses on all their special days.
  • Compose a list: "101 Reasons Why You're the Greatest" Write each reason on a separate square of paper. Wrap them in a fancy gift box.
  • Sprinkle perfume on to light bulb. When light is turned on the scent of the perfume will fill the room.
  • Relax with a glass of white wine.
  • Listen to a romantic audio tape, fix a cup of hot flavored tea, and light two candles.
  • Keep a journal of your romantic fantasies. Share it with your soul mate.
  • Buy a bunch of fish at a pet store. It doesn't matter what kind. Leave it for your lover with a note saying " Out of all the fish in the sea, you are the one for me".
  • Take a picture of yourself in the most sexy outfit possible. Hide in a secret spot in your house and leave him or her clues on how to get there. Watch the sparks fly!
  • Put a blindfold on your lover and drive them to a place where you have a blanket, candles, strawberries, sparkling drinks, and a rose. Park the car and take off the blindfold while you read a poem you have written for them.
  • While your lover is in the shower, or bath, put their bath towel in a hot dryer for a few minutes. Greet them when they get out of the shower with the toasty towel.
  • Pull the bag out of your lovers breakfast cereal box and slit a small hole in it. Insert a love note. Tape up the bag and return it to the box. What a way to start the day!
  • Write a list of 50 or more things you like or love about your sweetheart.
  • Unplug the TV set. Put a note on the screen saying, "Turn Me on Instead".
  • Play "hide-and-seek" in the rain. It's fun and VERY sensual!
  • Build your lover a web page telling them why you love them so much. Mention special moments and add some images and cool links to topics that interest them. Surf the web with them one day and just "stumble upon it". Or have someone send them an anonymous email with the link inviting them to the page.
  • Fill bathtub with warm water sprinkled with rose petals.
  • Fix a hot cup of Raspberry Chocolate, cuddle in a warm afghan and watch An Affair to Remember.
  • Place a perfumed handkerchief in the dryer with your sheets before drying.
  • Send your love a letter with confetti hearts inside of the letter so they pour out everywhere when your sweetheart opens it.
  • Surprise your partner to a personalized romantic gift from Perfectly Engraved
  • Invite your sweetie to an intimate dinner at your place. Make a pizza and with the pepperoni you can write something sweet, like "you are the one for me".
  • Share your romantic fantasies
  • Write your own love poems then record them on a tape and give them to your sweetheart.
  • Give your love an antique compass and say "You will never lose me". Your love will swear the needle always points to their heart!
  • While your love takes a shower, write the words "I love you" in the condensation of the bathroom mirror.
  • Leave a trail of "Hershey's chocolate kisses" from the front door to the bedroom, right up to the bed. On the bed leave a note that reads 'I kiss the ground you walk on.' Make sure you're not home when s/he gets in!
  • Write a love note or poem on a piece of paper and then cut it up into puzzle-like pieces. Send one a day to your special someone.
  • Play the game of monopoly with a few new rules. Change boardwalk into backrub, and Tennessee into take your shirt off. Every time you pass go, you get a kiss. etc.
  • Look straight into the eyes of your love and PAY ATTENTION to what they tell you! Tell your mate something about you that no one else knows.
  • Look into the eyes of your special someone often. "The eyes are the window to the soul". Weave love, sex, intimacy, passion and romance into the fabric of your daily lives.
  • Carve "His" and "Hers" jack-o-lanterns at Halloween.
  • Buy a set of matching silk pajamas, and take turns modeling them for each other.
  • Camp-out in a tent with your lover and picnic in a tree house
  • Men: Talk more. Women: Touch more.
  • Spend one solid hour exploring various kissing techniques.
  • Turn your "bedroom" into a "boudoir". Use soft colors and fabrics, fresh cut flowers on your nightstand, mirrors everywhere, etc. Hang your lovers Favorite art on your walls.
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